Hi, A child is a grave responsibility and the mans role in the enormous tapestry of parenting is ever more complex and evolved. I'm going to send you a small list of "dos & don'ts" for you to familiarise yourself with the main points of parenting. I would also suggest the Library for "Mathtock's Paret Bible" though bring a sturdy bag as it's "Quite a read"! The best advice I can give you is to get your reading glasses on! Think like your child and soak up the pages as it adjusts to the world and stay closely focused on it's every need. At times you may feel that the wife is getting in the way, but that is natural. Assert (firmly) that Bottle feeding allows a great deal of time to be freed for the man to take over and control ever waking aspect of the childs life. Must dash, I have a class with the Feminists for Facism group in half an hour, I'll send through that list for you very soon after that! Regards, Si